Tips for Preparing for Your Wedding Rehearsal at The Barn

barn wedding ceremony near st Louis

Make your wedding rehearsal stress-free with these tips from The Barn at Lone Eagle Landing. Learn what to bring, who to include, and how to make the most of your rehearsal day.

Your Wedding Rehearsal: Why It Matters

Your wedding rehearsal is more than a quick run-through— it sets the tone for your big day. It’s your chance to ensure everyone knows their role, the timing feels right, and any last-minute questions are answered. At The Barn at Lone Eagle Landing we want this step to be stree-free, organized, and even fun!

Here are our top tips for preparing for your wedding rehearsal at The Barn:

1. Confirm the Details Early

Double-check your rehearsal date and time with our team as soon as possible. Typically, rehearsals take place the day before your wedding, especially if you’ve booked the weekend wedding package, but scheduling can vary depending on other events. Confirm the time that works for you, your wedding party, and your officiant.

2. Create a Wedding Party Line-Up

Before you arrive, decide the order of your processional and recessional. Knowing who walks with whom (and in what order) saves time and avoids confusion. Don’t forget to include flower girls, ring bearers, and parents or grandparents.

Typical Ceremony Processional Order:

  • Officiant

  • Grandparents of the Bride

  • Grandparents of the Groom

  • Parents of the Groom

  • Mother of the Bride

  • Groom

  • Wedding Party (Bridesmaids and Groomsmen, paired or single)

  • Maide or Matrong of Honor

  • Ring Bearer and or Flower Girl

  • Bride and Escort

This is just a guideline and there are other ways of ordering your Processional. Your officiant may also have specific preferences for order and timing, so check with them before finalizing.

Barn wedding ceremony near St. Louis

3. Bring the Right People

Who should be at your rehearsal?

  • Wedding party members (bridesmaids and groomsmen)

  • Parents and Grandparents (if they’ll be part of the ceremony)

  • Officiant (or someone who can stand in if they can’t attend)

  • Anyone with a ceremony role (readings, special music performers, etc.)

  • Your DJ (if they are available to run the mics and music)

Pro Tip: Encourage everyone who plays a role in the ceremony to attend. However, if every single person is not in attendance, don’t sweat it! Travel plans, work conflicts, and more can prevent some from attending the day before the wedding. Enough people know when to walk and where to stand. It will all work out!

4. Pack Ceremony Essentials

While you don’t need your wedding dress or tux just yet, it’s smart to bring:

  • A copy of your ceremony script

  • Any vows you’ve written (you don’t have to read them in their entirety during the rehearsal if you would like to keep this part a surprise!)

  • Ceremony music list, especially if the rehearsal is not included in your DJ’s package.

  • Programs if you have them.

Pro Tip: Bring comfortable shoes for the rehearsal. Your feet will thank you!

5. Time Your Walk-Through

A typical rehearsal takes 30-45 minutes. If it’s much longer, it becomes inefficient and you begin to lose the attention of your bridal party. Use this time wisely:

  • Practice walking in slowly and evenly spaced, with stop points for photos.

  • Rehearse where to stand and how to exit after the ceremony

  • Double-check any special moments like readings or musical cues

Barn wedding ceremony in St. Louis

6. Count on Our Event Manager for Guidance

One of the best parts about having your wedding at The Barn at Lone Eagle Landing is the support you’ll receive during your rehearsal. Our event manager will be present to guide the process, answer questions, and make helpful suggestions if needed. Whether it’s adjusting the lineup for perfect timing or advising on ceremony flow, out goal is to ensure everything runs smoothly so you feel confident and relaxed for your big day.

7. End on a Fun Note

Many couples follow their rehearsal with a rehearsal dinner or casual gathering. This is great way to relax, thank your wedding party, catch up with old friends and family, and kick off the celebration!

Ready to book your weekend wedding package that includes a full day for decorating, rehearsal, and hosting your rehearsal dinner?

Contact us today!

www.barnatloneeaglelanding.com

thebarnatloneeaglelanding@gmail.com

Previous
Previous

Romantic Road Trips and Fall Foliage: Your Guide to Southeast Missouri

Next
Next

Why Event Insurance Is Essential For Your Wedding at The Barn at Lone Eagle Landing